Project Simplify Hot Spot#4 - Before

This week the Hot Spot was our pantry and refrigerator. I had a little bit of relief - comparing how terrible the rest of my home is, the pantry and refrigerator is not so ... terrifying?

Top shelf- extra cereal, adult snack
2nd: kids' snacks
3rd: some plastic bins, meds
4th tea and cans
5th: pasta, noodles
bottom: rice and some more noodles

Coffee and Spices

Well, I didn't say it would be neat. So, if you expect something nicer, I am sorry that I disappoint you. But I did use a lot of basket to make reaching into the back of the pantry easier and I also employed some organization system. And I also check them often... at least comparing to me a few years ago :)

My fridge isn't in too bad a shape too, I highly doubt I would find many expired things in there:

But then, take a look at my counter:

and the top of my fridge:

and the grocery bags on the floor:

I realized that my "system" is not sufficient for what I buy, that's why they are on the counter; that's why I am so reluctant to put away things after grocery shopping! It's because I do not know where they should go. I needed to review my "system".

But the biggest challenge of this hot spot is actually the other part of the question: why certain things even exists in the pantry or my grocery bags? Do those things truly deserve a spot? Does it match with our purpose statement? 

My secret ice-cream

And chocolate bar

Project Simplify Hot Spot#3 - After

Posting the embarrassing before pictures on Tuesday does take up a lot of time from actually doing the work. But it also, at the same time, helped me to focus on what needs to be done and to envision how I like the room to feel, even though, we are planning to move her into her brothers' room...


So, here is the before and after pictures of the most embarrassing corners:

Dresser #1 - Before

Dresser #1 - After

Diapers and changing area - Before

Diaper and changing are - after

In the first picture above, the bags next to the dressers were actually going away clothing and some diapers that I was going to sell. So, that part was actually not too difficult. It is harder to go through her clothes to sort out what keep and what not. I don't know about other 19-month-old girl but mine is definitely very typical girly type - she wanted me to put clothing that she liked on her and keep digging out other pieces of clothing! I ended up put her to nap in my bed one afternoon to sort it out. 


And now I am quite happy with how the room looks:

What have yet to be done


During this project, I suddenly realized how have been avoiding the laundry part of it. There is probably more clothing in the laundry pile that should really be in the "Give" basket. I need to tackle this:

My husband noticed a lot of things were gone from our girl's room and asked where they are. I am actually not sure if it is a good idea or not, I have put them into my closet the very first hot spot! But I guess I still need a place to put them away before I actually sell/give them, right? I hope I will carry through this very last part of the work and see it to the end. It wouldn't be Project Simplify if I am just moving things around, right? 

To be sent away

As excited as I am seeing the results of all these hotspots, I do honestly hope that the next spot would be a bit easier, so, I may deal with these "residuals". Besides, I haven't started my taxes yet. But then, which area of my home would be easy for me? Which part isn't a hot spot?!

How I Hate Laundry

O, Laundry, Laundry! How I hate Laundry

I did not realize before

How I just drag and drag

Without seeing them in the wash

I do not know the reason

Perhaps, it's simply because

The washer is in the garage

Yes, the washer is in the garage

All the way on the other side

I need to take Laundry over 

to that other side

Passing both of our cars 

without much space to squeeze by

Oh, how I hate that feeling

the feeling of my pants 

Touching the sides of the cars

Seeing more laundry on the way

with my pants in the tray

I do not know about you

But for us it is true

Our garage is not clean

So if you ever drop a sock

More Laundry is to do

O, Laundry laundry! How I hate Laundry

I did not realize before

How I just drag and drag

Without seeing them in the wash

I do not know the reason

Perhaps, it's simply because

No one ever appreciate

Yes, Laundry is a job

That no one appreciate

No one even realize

You are doing the Laundry

You are doing it for them 

Each and everyday 

Or, if you are like me

Maybe every now and then

Oh, no, no one would take notice

Not until that lucky day 

The day that they saw them 

All cleaned but on the sofa

Without being fold away

Or the day when they found out

They are out of clean clothing

For that very same day

Then they realize 

Laundry is not done

O, Laundry Laundry! How I hate laundry

I did not realize before

How I just drag and drag

without seeing them in the wash

I do not know the reason

Perhaps, it is because 

it is a job with no end

Yes, it is a job with no end

This minute you think you are done

The next you see a sock or a pair of pants

right in that basket you just emptied

Perhaps, it is the sock you just drop

On that dirty garage floor

But perhaps it is not.

It is just because, with a family of five, 

There is no end to dirty socks

Yes, there is no end to dirty socks

Not until the end of days

When sin is removed from the Earth

When earth no longer equals to dirt

But please do not quote me on this

I have not read my book of Revelations

But it just seems about right

That we will all dress in white

That is brighter than any earthly white

That is brighter than sunlight

It just sounds about right

That white should come from the Righteous King

Who washed our sin away

And not from any laundry

That we could do today

With that being said

And that day hasn't come

I know deep in my heart

No matter how I hate laundry

I should not just drag and drag

Without seeing them in the wash

For it just gets pile up

Doing me not any good

With writing all these down

God seems to be telling me

Laundry maybe mundane and tiny

But with these littlest tasks,

He is training me to face obstacles

Whether it is real or mental

they are not good enough reasons

for waiting another seasons

He also needs me to learn

Not to work for praises

Or other form of rewards

Endurance and faithfulness 

Is what He wants from me instead




May God grant me the discipline

To do the Laundry 

in a much more timely way
May my family never ceases to have

clean clothing available in their closet

until the end of days

Amen

Project Simplify Hot Spot#3 - Before

This week's hot spot is kid's clothing and/or toys. I have 3 kids. With their dad enjoy buying them toys and their mom cannot let go of any opportunity of getting hand-me-downs. They have quite a collection. I found it is particularly challenging to handle our little girl's clothing. So, I have decided to focus on her things this week and get the boys to help me with their things during their spring break.

Girls really do have a large variety of clothing and accessories. I used to just keep a cheap, plastic, 3-drawer dresser of clothing for each of her brothers but she needed two and still they can't seem to hold them all. Nothing speaks better than a few pictures, so, this week, I decided to follow the footstep of Elizabeth @ Ready.Set.Simplify and post some before pictures:

Dresser #1 with tons of clothing next to it...

Changing area and laundry basket of clean clothing and diapers

Laundry basket
with another bag of hand-me-down
and some bedding waiting to be washed...

More clothes on the mattress

As you can see, it is absolutely embarrassing. One thing I know is that she has out-grown a lot of those clothes. In fact, the bags of clothing next to dresser #1 are going away clothes. I need to properly store them for paying it forward. There is also a bag of clean diaper that I was going to sell. I probably could find more that I could let go of. My girl is in underwear at home now. As you can see, laundry is my other problem, I hope I could get the monster down this week.

Stop the Inflow

More hand-me-down of larger size

I am sure I also need to be more selective in choosing from the hand-me-down. After having two boys, the girly hand-me-down are so difficult to let go. But now that I start to see what I tend to use and what not, I hope I could avoid flooding her dressers :)

Downsizing, sort of...

It is an important task to "down-size" her wardrobe - we are going to move her to sleep in her brothers' room! Both boys are very excited to get their bunk-bed and this little girl of mine seems to want to have company in her room too, just like her brothers. Meanwhile, my husband's crazy workload has led him to work more hours. Having his office (the girl's room) back would make it easier for him to carry out those work from home.

So, I have tons of reasons to get this done, let it begin...

Does she like to eat?

The other day, a kid in my son's class asked me about my "baby", here is what I think:

She likes to eat, she likes to drink

She would eat just about anything

If you let her, she would try it without a blink

If you do not stop her, it will disappear in a wink.

Project Simplify Hot Spot#2

This is definitely not done yet... and I am just talking about the paper trail around my desk! Well, my desk does look better:

Before

After

but only because I have a lot of paper in boxes!

From Right: Action Soon, Shred, Action/File, Recycle

I probably should have followed the directions from Simple Mom more closely... but instead, I separate the Action box into two. I did that because there bound to be some paper  that need more immediate attention, like the dental form for school. But it is the Action/File box that I always ended up just leave them alone... I have 6 or more boxes of similar things from previous move! This time I really need to have to conquer this Action/File box - so that I may have the courage to open the other 6!

Pray for me that I may have this done before the next hot spot's up. Here is an encouragement for myself:

Project Simplify Hot Spot#1

When Project Simplify first posted, there seemed to be a long wait before the first hot spot would be announced. But here I am, on the Saturday after the first hot spot was revealed, one day past due date, finally writing about the challenge which I took the "Before" picture on the due date... I guess it explains a lot why I am the the Messy Wife/Messy Mom here!


The first hot spot was our wardrobe and closet or our very own clothing collections. I was surprised by the choice at first, like Tsh anticipated in her post, it was not a common problematic area, not mine at least (or so I thought!) and it was not a high traffic area (so, who is there to appreciate my work ;P ) But I quickly see one thing - I have no excuses for not getting it done: 1. it is my own stuff, not something I need to wait on help or opinion from someone else; 2. it is a relatively small area in the house, more easily done. But still, it took me till Friday to start...


Here is what happened on Friday:


@ 1:30 pm: took "Before" pictures and started picking out clothes that I no longer wanted.

Before

@ 1:40 pm: took out my sweater "collection"

Sweaters

@ 2:00 pm: found more of my clothing in a box...
@ 2:30 pm: 18 months-old woke up to the "in between" scene...

In between scene

Then, I started juggling between finishing the tasks and taking care of my toddler, picking up the school-aged boys, geting them snacks, finishing the dishes, playing with my toddler, etc, etc and meanwhile dealing with my very runny nose... Finally, I had the clothes put away with the give away ones in bags before my husband arrived home.

After - 1st shot
Notice that the mess in the basket is gone and 2 of the coats to the right is gone

@ 8:30 pm: looked for the cable for uploading the pictures... Upon seeing the pictures and the first entry @ Project: Simplify: Master Closet Results I decided to organize a bit more, retook the "After" pictures.

After - 2nd shot
"nice" clothes to the left, long sleeves casual and then short sleeves T-shirts

and then flip the hangers and took another pictures ;)

After - 3rd shot
hangers flipped :)

And start writing this blog post :) I didn't get the writing done the same night because my runny nose wasn't getting any better. So, I decided to go to bed with some Benadryl. It always speed up the course of my cold.


After Thoughts


Before the challenge, I would not have thought that I have so many clothes to give away... We have moved just 3 years ago and on average we moved every 2 years. Every time I gave away some of my clothes and I did not like shopping for clothes. Yet, I bed was covered with unwanted clothing.

Of course, I need to give credit to this challenge's tips and to the book Organized Simplicity. There were clothing that I kept thinking I would wear some day but never did. Like these sweaters

Some of them were given to me and of very good quality but I haven't worn them even on my thinest days. Even if I could lose those baby weight before the coming winter, I would not put them on. They are just not what I like to wear! Besides, they looks like teenages' clothing to me now. I felt too old for them anyways.

Even though we are now in Southern California, I still decide to keep a few sweaters. These to me are more timeless. I am more likely to put these on when we visit colder places again.

I am glad to see the size of them in the basket, comparing to the before picture above.

In the process, I am also glad to find a women's shelter that may accept my items that may not be acceptable by other charity. You see, I cannot sew but I feel bad for throwing away clothing that can be repaired or repurposed. So, I almost always end up keeping them, thinking that I would repair them someday. But now, they are in my Give pile, except for a few long sleeves... because they are all that I've got. I think I need a few happy clothes to replace them and I am confident that I would hang on to them like I used to.

All in all, this is good exercise for me, both for me to warm up to the rest of the challenge and to understand myself better - I am still hanging onto things in an area that I thought I had always been living simple. I still have a lot to learn...